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Starting My Own Business- 5 Lessons Learned

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Dr. Chloe Carmichael, PhD Jan 14, 2021 6:07:28 AM
Starting My Own Business- 5 Lessons Learned

In May 2012, I was finishing my final licensing hours after six long years of full-time doctoral training. It was such a relief to be eligible for a good salary with benefits after all those years of squeaking by on student loans and credit cards. And so deciding to leave that full-time job to focus exclusively on my own practice was daunting, to say the least. I was terrified to leave the security of a stable job and regular paycheck, but I knew I had to if I were ever to realize my ultimate goal of building a private practice.

Political Polarization Is A Psychology Problem

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Dr. Chloe Carmichael, PhD Jan 14, 2021 2:52:47 AM
Political Polarization Is A Psychology Problem

You probably don’t need to anyone to tell you this, but Americans are more polarized than ever before on the topic of presidential approval. According to a recent Pew Research poll, 88 percent of Republicans approve of President Trump, while just eight percent of Democrats approve. Not surprisingly, all of this discord is causing stress: A recent poll by the American Psychological Association found that 59 percent of American adults experience stress from the current levels of social divisiveness.

Harness the Power of Silence in 5 Easy Steps

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Dr. Chloe Carmichael, PhD Jan 13, 2021 10:51:20 AM
Harness the Power of Silence in 5 Easy Steps

As a yoga teacher-turned-psychologist, I’ve always been amazed at the overlap between psychology and yoga, specifically in mindfulness and in silence. One yogic practice that I find fantastic as a psychologist is intentional and compassionate silence. Whether you are in a relationship or currently single and living alone, you might feel some sort of pressure to always answer the phone, constantly make small talk with a partner, or always have “something interesting” to say. Intentional silence is a great way to combat this pressure, and can just be a fun way to deepen your relationships and play around with nonverbal communication!

Terrorism, Anger, Anxiety: How to Manage Strong Feelings

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Dr. Chloe Carmichael, PhD Jan 13, 2021 2:33:18 AM
Terrorism, Anger, Anxiety: How to Manage Strong Feelings

When we are faced with extreme world events such as terrorism, many of us can feel at a loss regarding how to process our emotions.  On one hand, we feel full of very strong emotion; and on the other hand we may simultaneously feel as if we are actually so powerless over whatever official governmental response will be taken that our feelings can seem almost irrelevant to the broader picture of how these events fit into perspective.  

Coping with Quarantine Life 4 Simple Tips from a Clinical Psychologist

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Dr. Chloe Carmichael, PhD Jan 12, 2021 10:36:07 AM
Coping with Quarantine Life 4 Simple Tips from a Clinical Psychologist

Quarantine life has been called “the new normal” over the past couple of months. Although it may be “normal” in the sense that it’s become common, it is understandably not feeling at all normal to us in terms of our wellbeing: in fact, quarantine life can pose some very unique challenges.  While I can’t take that stress away, as a clinical psychologist I can offer some practical tips to handle quarantine life from a cognitive, behavioral, and emotional perspective. Some of the tips I offer will be exercises or other behaviors you can try, and some of them will be just simple ideas on perspectives that may be helpful.  Many of the ideas and exercises will actually be helpful to you even after quarantine, so take heart in knowing you’re increasing your proverbial toolbox in ways that will be useful even when COVID19 is a thing of the past, at least in terms of pandemic levels.  If you’re open to ideas on personal growth, then you’ve come to the right place!

Why Am I Still Single?

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Dr. Chloe Carmichael, PhD Jan 9, 2021 1:42:04 AM
Why Am I Still Single?

“Why am I still single?” It’s a question I hear a lot in my practice. As a clinical psychologist in New York City, I work with many successful clients — while they’re really good at getting things done in their professional lives, their dating life is either nonexistent or chaotic.

5 Ways to Beat Social Anxiety in Business Meetings

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Dr. Chloe Carmichael, PhD Jan 9, 2021 12:59:46 AM
5 Ways to Beat Social Anxiety in Business Meetings

Feelings of anxiety manifest themselves in many different ways and in a variety of situations, one of which is in the workplace. Anxiety in business meetings can be extremely debilitating if it stops you from sharing your thoughts and ideas, and being a contributing member of the team.  This pattern can leave you feeling frozen before and during business meetings,  and even end up keeping you from attaining possible promotions because you aren’t able to interface effectively with your teammates at work.

30, Single, and Dating On a Timeline? Part 1: Could He Be the One?

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Dr. Chloe Carmichael, PhD Jan 7, 2021 4:34:29 PM
30, Single, and Dating On a Timeline? Part 1: Could He Be the One?

A single woman in her late twenties or early thirties may find herself looking to find a husband sooner rather than later. With her self-esteem on the line or her biological clock ticking in her ears, she may be on a one-year timeline, meaning that after one year of dating, she’s expecting a proposal of marriage.